Effective Leadership Is Sensitive to Others

Commentary

It is possible to hate the sin but love the sinner. Effective rebuke is the kind that is given with the arm of love around the other person. Rebuke given in the spirit of anger may hurt and even terrify; but the rebuke given in a loving spirit can break the heart. When Paul rebuked, the last thing he wanted was to be was domineering. Effective leadership is sensitive to the needs of others. Some pastors and Christian leaders appear to want to be “spiritual dictators” who control their people rather than servants who seek to help others grow. I once heard the pastor of a large church say, “I’m not a dictator, I’m the only tator.” How sad to see people become slaves and puppets of a person like this rather than servants of the Lord.  
These false teachers, who invaded the Corinthian church were guilty of being dictators. They had attempted to turn the hearts of the people away from Paul, who had sacrificed so much for them (II Corinthians 11). In contrast to this, we see Paul’s compassion for the people in not wanting to “pull rank” on them (v. 24). Even though he had great authority as an apostle, he did not want to “lord it over” them.  Dictatorial type leadership may produce compliance, but not obedience that comes from wanting to serve the Lord, which is what Paul wanted. 
Paul refrained from going to Corinth in person to avoid having to rebuke them and mar the fellowship he had with them in the gospel. Why change joy into sorrow if he could handle this problem through correspondence. Before he reached Corinth in person, he wanted to have the Corinthians problems settled and their questions answered. 

Application

When problems come between Christian brothers it is so easy to want to have our own way so strongly that we destroy the testimony of Christ in the process. Lord, help me to be able to promote a positive spirit among others even when I must deal with negative things.